As long as we think that we already know …

If it is true that our past experience forms how we think and behave today then, if we want to think and behave in a different way tomorrow, we must deliberately create experience consistent with what we desire. We must know what to change today, what we want tomorrow and how to take action. “Know…

“Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

“Understanding the difference between healthy striving and perfectionism is critical to laying down the shield and picking up your life. Research shows that perfectionism hampers success. In fact, it’s often the path to depression, anxiety, addiction, and life paralysis.” ― Brené Brown

“Everybody is unique and has the potential to do extraordinary things. The first step is often challenging accepted thinking.” Richard Branson

One way to reduce your reliance on power as a behaviour style is to give the power away. If you do that you  are likely to increase your use of Affiliative and Humanistic-Encouraging behaviour. That is probably why the saying works.

If things are not going as you would like with someone else check yourself first.  You might be holding all the power, being competitive, expecting to much or playing devil’s advocate. If that is true it is about you, not them.   “If you cannot find peace within yourself, you will never find it anywhere else.”…